Wednesday, March 4, 2009

INTRODUCING.........................

our daughter



Averi Lee








Words cannot describe the feelings that we have for this precious little girl whom we have never even met. We are so THANKFUL and BLESSED!!! Actually we are shocked and amazed that things went so smooth and quickly for us.




We actually got "the call" on February 17th at 7pm. We were not expecting it to happen so quickly since we had only really been "waiting" for one day. On monday(the 16th) we had our phone conversation with the Director of our AZ agency about the types of referrals we were willing to look at, that type of thing. Our Homestudy had also just been completed(the last step in the process). We knew things would happen fast but we didn't realize how fast. So, you can say that we were more than shocked when she called that next evening and said she had some news for us. She talked for a few minutes about the baby and we said we definitely wanted her to send us the information. Then she said "you haven't even asked the biggest question yet. We had just assumed it was a boy, but I asked anyway and she said "it's a girl"!! I could not believe it, I started crying. As I have probably told many of you we were expecting to receive a referral for a boy only because there are usually more boys that are adopted from of Korea. You can only request a girl if you have two or more boys already in your family. So, we did not specify gender and of course would have been thrilled with either. I am very excited though that Olivia will have a sister and she of course has wanted a sister from the beginning. She is beyond excited!! She is going to be such a big help to me, she absolutely LOVES babies. They will only be a little over 3 years apart. Little Logan doesn't have a clue that he's going to be sandwiched between two sisters. :) He's going to make a wonderful big brother. At first I think he might be a little jealous but I know he'll warm up quickly.



Averi was born on August 14th so she's almost 7 months old. She was born 5 weeks premature but is doing very well. She is described as healthy and happy and age appropriate. She has lived with a foster family since she was 2 months old and for this we are SO thankful!!! I tear up every time I think of this woman and what she is doing for my baby. I wish I could thank her in person for everything she is and will do for our baby in the next few months. To her we will always be grateful. Her foster mom has two kids at home as well and I guess Averi just loves her daughter. Again, we are so thankful that she is able to be in this environment until she is able to be in our arms forever.



We do not have a specific time frame on when she'll be home but they say it usually takes between 3 to 6 months. We are sending our acceptance paperwork out today. I will post later on what happens next and what will go on in the coming months, but for now we just wanted to share her picture with everyone. Please continue to keep her in your prayers. That she continues to stay healthy and that she will come home very soon. I have a feeling these next few months are going to be very rough for us. So...I guess you can keep us in your prayers as well. Thank you again for every one's support throughout this. Please feel free to leave a comment. I would love to print out this blog someday and show it to Averi and to tell her how many people loved and prayed for her. Thank you dear friends and family.........God has richly blessed us by placing each and everyone of you in our lives.


We'll continue to keep you updated.


Isaiah 43:5 "Do not be afraid, for I am with you; I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west."

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Long overdue update......

For the few of you that actually read this, I'm so sorry for not posting sooner(I told you I'd be bad at this "blog" thing). :)
We had our individual interviews with our social worker in the middle of December which went really well. Our social worker is a wonderful Christian man and very easy to talk to. We feel really comfortable around him and feel blessed that he was chosen to work with us. After that we didn't do much due to the holidays and our Social Worker was off for a little while. It felt strange not doing anything for so long, but then on January 20th we had our Home visit. This was not nearly as bad as we thought it would be. They just want to make sure that your home is safe and sanitary. So the day before my mom helped me clean our house like crazy...it was spotless. Thanks mom!! So he came around 3:00 after the kids were up from their nap. I planned it that way so that they would be rested and on their best behavior. Ha!! :) They actually did really well, they were calm(I know, crazy), sweet, and very happy. So he came, asked a few more questions, looked at every room including the garage and the backyard. Our home is already pretty kid proof so there really wasn't anything that we had to change. The meeting was really harmless and very simple. He was maybe here 45 minutes. It felt so good to finally have the last step completed. So what happens next you ask, well...he had to write up our Home Study which is a document ALL about us and every detail of our lives. Then he sends a copy to our AZ agency which we just found out on Thursday that they had received it. Yay!! We thought it would take about 4 weeks to complete, but thankfully it only took two. Once they look over it and approve it(there might be a few small things we have to change) then they'll send a copy to Korea and to USCIS. So, we are actually now just "waiting" for the call when they tell us we have been matched with a baby. This could happen Monday or it could be weeks from now. The world of adoption is so unknown, but we are so ready to take the next step and see the precious face of the child that the Lord has chosen for us. We have been SO blessed throughout this process, we again are humbled and amazed at the ways the Lord has provided for us in ALL ways. Our faith is completely in Him as we could do nothing without Him. I don't know why I ever even doubt or get anxious because He is the true provider and comforter. This has truly been a journey of faith and it's not even close to being over. We can't wait to see how He continues to grow and strengthen our faith in Him. He teaches us things in every area of our lives and I have truly learned so much in these last few months. So thank you again to everyone who has played apart in this journey with us, you are truly a blessing and we are so thankful for your support and kindness.
Hopefully the next time I post it will be to show off a picture of our new baby....we'll see. :)

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Here are some family photos that were taken by my friend Amber G. She did a great job and was wonderful with the kids. Thank you so much Amber.



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Wednesday, December 10, 2008

So......we have been assigned a social worker and he will be doing our individual interviews with us on Wednesday the 17th at 9am. Please pray for us as I'm a little nervous....the interview will be around an hour and a half long and I am terrible with words and answering questions. I'm not so nervous about talking to him just about what might come out, I tend to get a little tongue tied. :) Danny will do great, I'm not worried about him at all. He feels at ease with anyone, he'll probably be best friends with this guy before the interview's over. :) I'll post next week about how it all went. Have a wonderful weekend!

Friday, December 5, 2008

Adoption Update!

I haven't posted in awhile about the adoption process so I'll fill you in on what's going on. A few weeks ago our application with AZ agency was approved which we were very excited about. So for the most part all the paperwork is done for them....for now. I still have to take a CPR class but I actually found one that I'll be able to take online, very cool!! That will save me having to be gone for about 4 hours on a saturday. I can just complete it at home, on my time and even in my Pj's if I want to. :) Ok.....so, then we started working on everything for our CA agency which consisted of classes, lots of paperwork, forms notorized, fingerprints, etc. Well, on Wednesday we turned everything in to them. Can we say HURRAYYYYY!!!!!!! Now the next step is we will be assigned a social worker who will do individual interviews with us and then the Home Visit. After that they will compile our information and write up our "Home Study" which will then be sent to Korea. Then, we wait..................:)

It's amazing to think that our baby is probably born and thousands of miles away. Our prayer is that our child is loved and cared for until the day the Lord brings us together as a family in His perfect timing. Please keep our family as well as our new child in your prayers. Thank you to everyone for your continued support throughout this.

Have a happy weekend,

Here's a sneak peek at some photos that my friend Amber took of our family. I'll be posting more soon.







Blessings,
Carla

Saturday, November 15, 2008

November is National adoption awareness month and I was going to write a little something about it but I came across this video and it says more than I could ever say. Obviously adoption is on my heart so it touched me deeply, hopefully it does the same for you. I am not a person who cries a lot but I always seem to when I watch videos involving orphans. There are millions of orphans in the US and throughout the world who are in need of a loving home. Last year at this time is when Danny and I felt the call to adopt. Little did we know that November was National Adoption Month. A time where many Christians are praying that the Lord would lay it on the hearts of families to support or adopt a child. Another little reason we feel and know this is what the Lord had planned for us. It's amazing to look back over the last year and see all that the Lord has done for us. He is good, all the time. This month I am so thankful for the blessing of adoption!! Please watch...
you may have to pause the playlist on the right to hear the music.


Thursday, November 6, 2008

A few photos from Halloween














































We spent the evening at my sister's house. Danny had to work so we didn't go trick or treating but I still wanted to get the kids dressed up. They loved it and I must say they looked pretty cute. :)
Logan was supposed to be a pirate but wasn't to interested in wearing his hat, hook or earring. And of course Livy wanted to be a princess.
We had a fun, quiet evening and ate sooo much delicious food. Great time with the fam!!!